How can I tell her to chill out?
I proposed to my girlfriend, expecting to bring our lives closer together, but lately she seems like she’s turned into another girl!
Pizza and beer nights have been replaced with her drinking wine (alone) on the phone with her friends, while paging through bridal magazines–which are everywhere now!
It’s all she ever talks about. She was never a girly girl, and this change in character is giving me second thoughts! Hearing her obsess over which dress goes with which shoes, and how soon she needs to make her appointment at some fancy salon for our wedding–which is still 6 months away! are driving me crazy.
Today she decided she’s having second thoughts about the photographer. We chose Barbara with Denver wedding photography together, ‘cuz we both liked her style, and now some new bride-to-be friend of hers has convinced her that this other photographer is the way to go.
Will my old girlfriend ever come back, or am I doomed to spend the rest of my life with the new fiance?